It all starts to unravel

I think I can see why certain people won’t accept the current state of affairs when it’s explained, is obvious, or plenty of evidence is being presented. Once you admit one thing, or understand what has been revealed, then it’s like a cascade event occurs. Or at least should. But I presume that there is a mechanism in some people’s thought process, that inhibits them from thinking it through. Because deep down they know, but it’s just too awful to admit, so they detach from reality to maintain their delusion of everything being ok. Because if you start to question the methods and motives of the ‘establishment’ and all its branches, and see what others see, it’s not a comfortable feeling. And not one that anyone would choose. But it has become starkly obvious of late, that we are not being looked after, or helped, or governed. We are being hoodwinked and led astray down a very dark path.

Many don’t want to, or can’t admit that. And many others have, and countless more are becoming aware of it daily. It’s an awful realisation to know someone or something that claimed to have your safety and best interests at heart, doesn’t. And in fact, means the opposite, to cause you and yours harm. You need to accept a number of things, firstly that you have been duped, secondly you are on your own, and thirdly, they mean you harm. It’s a lot to take in and adjust your way of thinking accordingly. The feelings you firstly get from being duped don’t have a timescale, and anger can linger and become destructive rather than be useful to drive you on, instead you get stuck. You need to work through the anger and reserve it for later. Secondly, understanding you are on your own can be quite scary. Where once you thought there was a system of help out there in the authorities for food, education, health and finance, is suddenly all on you. That can be isolating, frustrating and frankly quite terrifying if you’ve never considered it before. And thirdly to understand that there is a threat to your persons, just not the one you maybe thought it was. So technically that one should be easier, you just need to redirect your fear or worry towards the right target. Not always the case, but can happen.

So, where do you go once reality starts to unfold and the can of worms is opened? Each person will have their own experience of knowing what was and is coming and how long they have understood the mechanisms being put in place within society which will lead to one logical outcome. The digital monitoring and enslavement of humanity, one country at a time. They do not care if the cattle are happy, they just want what we can give them and need us to fit into their elaborate plan. Which is why I believe keeping people apart, separated and divided by petty and trivial matters works to their advantage, massively. Because we benefit and flourish in the presence and company of others, even just being near people is ok for some, getting human energy from each other. Recharging (and draining) each other, that’s why we are important. We can also share a range of information with people when in person, by way of language, expressions, observations, sharing thoughts, ideas and hopes. These are the things they want to monitor and control as well as your physical way of life. And it cannot be allowed to happen. Misery is a monitored man; I will tell you that now. They monitor you in prison, they put you in isolation in prison, and they have a lack of privacy in prison for a reason – because it is a punishment. So, anyone who would truly think that is a good option and way of life for the general population on a ongoing daily basis, is not on our side.

Which means we need to discuss the can of worms. You know, the huge one getting bigger by the day, which we were laughed at for saying would happen two years ago. The one about a dystopian future, governments out of control and a certain pharmaceutical product being used to bring about illness, injury and death. Yeah, that one. Although I have written many articles about what I thought would happen, we are now watching it actually happen. The heart attacks and other side effects, the take-over of people’s lives by way of finance, the shut-down of rights, protests and liberties by governments in various countries. It’s all there, right in front of people now, and even the press sector seems to be getting a little jittery, and rightly so. It may be that their time has come and gone to be able to help us now, they too will be thrown under the bus like every industry gradually. They will not need doctors and nurses as they will have their medipods and personally trained staff, they won’t need pilots or police, robots have already been designed for that – if anything it will be software engineers who will be needed once it’s up and running (if not already). They will have smart cities in place ready to go for the populations they do want to keep, and keep them they will, in a controlled environment under their supervision. Or at least that seems to be what they are hoping for. Almost as if they have filtered through so much inspiration for an apocalypse and disaster that they are counting on using an illusion of one, rather than it actually happening. They want people fearful and frightened, scared of their own shadow and looking for a saviour, so they can present themselves as such. But the ones who ruined you are not the ones to save you. Just remember that…

(c) K Wicks

Getting hurt by words

I’m sure many have noticed we appear to be living in a time where the phrase

‘Words are literally violence’

has entered the scene. And many laugh at it, as well they should. I’m from the not so far away time of

‘Sticks and stones may break by bones, but words will never hurt me’

so it’s quite a turnaround. And being honest, not a very good one. I believed and still do, that it’s meant for character building, preparing you for people in life, and to thicken your skin as the saying goes. Being able to take insults, or being laughed at is a life skill I thought.

But it’s a fine balance really isn’t it, and one that takes years to get right. We have all felt bad at some point because of others, either what they have said or what they have done. I believe you should listen to what people are saying and understand it, then have to decide what you take on board and what you discard, then move on. But many people are so self-absorbed, and thinking about what the words mean to them, I feel they overlook an important lesson and get stuck in the ‘poor me’ aspect. The lesson being, it usually says an awful lot about the person saying them, and sometimes, when you get to root of the why, it’s often nothing to do with you, so is a complete waste of your time to let it affect you. It’s their own anger, confusion or possibly just meaness coming through and being directed at someone else. A very sure way to deflect from their own feeling and failings.

I’ve had all sorts of insults in my time, and because I look at things logically, I usually analyse what they said, how it made me feel (if it did), then review it to understand if what they said is really what they meant. (People have a habit of not actually saying what they mean) And if they did mean it, where did it come from. That way, if I am at fault, I can usually see it, and will happily own up to said behaviour once recognised and apologise if necessarily or take action to correct it. But if it is their problem, I will definitely point it out to them.

So, how did we get to the stage where people think they are being physically attacked when they hear words that seem to shake them to their very core? Is it a lack of emotional maturity that means they can’t process what is happening, so a tantrum or meltdown may occur as with a toddler? It also could be a general lack of awareness and lack of basic communication skills. People don’t seem to understand that if you aren’t very good at communicating or lack vocabulary, you cannot explain how you feel properly to someone else. That could be quite isolating and frustrating, so you find any way you know how to get interaction and attention on whatever level is on offer. Even if that is a completely dysfunctional level.

Is it possible that there is a middle ground to be found, and that perhaps the extremes are being pushed in society because it does cause a divide of communication (left and right, red and blue, us and them etc), and means we have more difficulty explaining and expressing ourselves to each other and being understood. Which in turn leads to higher frusrations and wilder emotions, which can then cause outbursts and what we would call a failure to communicate. The people who think they are being punched with words do need to toughen up, that is for sure. Some cold harsh truths would do some people some good, and a bit of time to think them over without running to others for input before they have even given it thought themselves.

Others opinions and ideas can have a very big impact on what would otherwise have been your decisions, so make sure before you seek advice or feedback on things, you know whether you actally need advice or not. It’s very easy to panic or get overwhelmed and think you need someone elses input on something, but you don’t always know if the other person is either equipped to give said advice on that matter, or may not have your best interests at heart with the advice they give. Finding someone who is impartial and logical isn’t easy these days, if it ever was. Once you add feelings into that, it gets even more complicated. So try and be truthful to yourself and others, and know you can’t control how someone is going to feel about it thereafter, but don’t be unneccessarily mean, there is just no need for it. As we all know, the truth can hurt all by itself…

(c) K Wicks